Problems with Rewards
The biggest problem with potty training rewards is that they confuse the message. The child’s desire to obtain the reward can become so great that it obscures the goal. Instead of focusing on potty training, you and your child are engaged in M&M negotiations! This doesn’t mean rewards can’t serve as helpful incentives when your child is ready and willing to potty train; but rewards shouldn’t upstage the main event!
Verbal Rewards
Encourage potty training with plenty of verbal praise and positive reinforcement. Keeping a basket of small toys and books next to the potty can make potty time special. Turning potty time into a mini story time is another way to encourage your child to relax and, hopefully, perform. Stay away from food rewards to avoid establishing unhealthy food habits.
Keep Rewards Small
Incentives are most useful as a way to encourage toddlers when they’d rather be doing something else. Keep rewards small and offer them immediately after pottying -- and always accompany rewards with lots of verbal praise.