It is perfectly normal for children to be afraid or nervous about new situations. Particularly if they are just starting day care or kindergarten, they have no reference for what they are about to experience which makes the unknown that much more fearful. Usually there is something specific that is worrying your child. He may be worried that he won’t know anyone or won’t make any friends. He may be worried about what his teacher will be like. He may be concerned about how hard the work will be and whether he can do it. If he had trouble with another child during the previous school year, he may be afraid of being bullied. Small children who are new to day care frequently worry about whether their parents will come back to get them.
It is important to recognize your child’s fears and help him overcome them so that he can move past them and look forward to day care or school.
Next time: Helping your child cope with his fears